Hotwife or Cuckold

I came across an interesting blog post/question over at one of my favorite blogs, I Love Cuckoldry where the blogger asks if hot wifing and cuckoldry are the same thing. His conclusion, and God forbid, I am not much good at figuring out conclusions, seems to be that regardless of the reality, society views the husbands of hotwives as cuckolds even though there are differences between the two. I have to agree, because mainstream folks, or at least those who won't admit an interest in the lifestyle, would think that a wife who fucks around with others is cuckolding her husband. Perhaps....but on the other hand, you can be a hotwife, and not exactly be cuckolding your husband, particularly if you, like many others like to have your husband join in the fun. When Melissa and I first started out, I was always an active participant, and our fun times revolved around MFM threesomes more than anything, although we had some MFMF times too with other couples. It has only been of late that this watching my wife thing has turned into something of a cuckold relationship, and that is as much because of me as her. I have discovered that I enjoyed those moments watching her with others, and kind of fell into the cuck role when I discovered that I got turned on when she treated me in a manner that a cuckold should be treated, denied access, told how small I am compared to some guy and so on.

The funny thing about this is, we seem to move back and forth between the two, hotwife/swinger and cuckold/cuckoldress, depending on our moods and the situation. In many situations, for whatever reason, I don't have a lot of interest in the wife of another couple we are playing with, preferring to be involved in whatever Melissa is doing. So playing with couples seldom holds much interest for me. Sure, occasionally a woman comes along that I want, but to be honest, no woman can replace my wife, and very few can keep me entertained while Melissa is getting her groove filled by the other's husband. I wanna watch....and sometimes be part of it. That's how it came to be that we got ourselves on Adult FriendFinder  and started hooking up with single men. There was no other woman for me to contend with, and frankly, that's what a lot of it felt like. So, we gravitated to the hotwife with husband watching/participating and now we have moved into another level, that of cuckolding. Quite frankly, I've enjoyed it all.....and continue to do so....In fact, believe it or not, the most difficult part is finding the right guy to bring to the party. There are lots of eager applicants, but they don't all understand or know what it takes to be a "bull" in a relationship like ours. That's why I am always  recommending  this ebook about Becoming An Alpha Male because Melissa and I, and couples like us, need guys who know how to be the bull, and how to take part in a cuckold-hotwife-MFM relationship.

What about you? Do you think there is a difference? Is your wife a hotwife or are you a cuckold?

You Do The Honors Cuckie

I was still downstairs naked, waiting while Melissa and her latest bull were upstairs in our bedroom screwing, when I heard her call for me to come up. I raced up the stairs and down the hall, opening the bedroom door with a quick knock. She was naked, laying spread eagle on the bed, her new bull kneeling on the edge of the bed, naked too, his cock, which was long and thick, hung half erect between his legs as he turned when I entered the room.

"Yes?" I asked, looking at Melissa, relieved that everything looked OK.

"Yes" she replied, "Yes, I am ready for Steven, but I want you, my little cuck, to do the honors.

"Honors?" my eyebrows raised, questioning, not sure of her meaning.

"I want you to put Steven inside of me." She emphasized 'Steven' not 'Steve" but 'Steven'  formal, and quite authoritative.

"You need to feel what a real cock feels like, and how it feels to me sliding inside of me." she said, knowing that her words were turning me on, which was obvious by the swelling cock between my legs. She took her fingers, and rubbed between her legs, sliding her hand over her pussy, smearing wetness over her lips.

"I am ready" she said, looking at me, and turning over on the bed, raising herself up on all fours, her bum towards Steven, her legs open. "Bring me my cock, cucky." she said, her voice lowered to a mysterious, yet sexy husky sound.

I moved the few steps to the bed as Steven moved into position behind her, his cock swinging as he moved. He said something to me, I didn't quite hear. I looked at his cock apprehensively, then at my own, which paled in comparison. Melissa's pussy was wet, and open, and I knew she had already had him, he had already fucked my wife, this was just for my benefit. I took his cock in my hand, feeling the strange rubbery feeling, it was thick and round, in fact, it felt heavy. He moved as started to sort of pull on him, but stopped, and pulled back.

"Lay down." He ordered, "Lay down between her legs." pointing to a position on the bed beneath Melissa's open legs. I got it...I laid down on my back and wiggled into position between her legs, underneath her, looking up at my wife's belly and pussy lips as he moved above me, straddling my prone body, his cock dangling in front of my face.

"Now give it to her." he ordered, "Give your wife a cock....she needs it, she wants it."

I reached up and took his cock in my hand again, it felt harder now, and the circumsized head had turned a bright red color, as I pressed it towards Melissa's open slit, slipping it between her lips, sliding it up and down her slit before he grunted and thrust forward, shoving hard, his cock sliding between my fingers and inside of my wife.

Melissa groaned, arched her back and took it. I watched as all 8 or 9 inches disappeared inside of her, amazed at how her vagina opened to accept it, so easily, so deeply. He started thrusting, while I was pinned beneath her, listening to her groans and moans of pleasure, knowing she was enjoying every inch of cock. Her moans turned to gasps as he fucked her, and she started rocking back and forth on the bed, pounding back, shoving hard against him, taking him deep. Wetness dripped from her cunt, and hit me in the face, as they fucked, her wetness, and probably his, from their earlier tryst. I was beneath her, my hands raised up, holding her hips, holding her as if I was fucking her. Her body moved in wonderful ways, taking his cock, fucking her, as nature took over and she became a bitch in heat, needing it, wanting it, basking in the pleasure she was receiving, her sounds attesting to the pleasure she was enjoying.

The fucked for what seemed a long time, her body moving harder and faster, the bed creaking, their bodies trembling from the muscles reacting to the position,  and her body reacting to the feelings he was creating. Her stomach muscles moved, up and down, her skin rippling, in the most delightful way as I held her body. Looking up, over my head, behind me, I could see her big tits swinging, her nipples looked elongated and hard, I wanted to suck them, but instead, I saw big strong fingers reach around and grab her breasts, squeezing, until she screamed even louder, and let go, an orgasm washing over her, her body letting go, leaving me underneath, half holding her up, half supporting her weight as she came, and as he pulled out, her wetness hit me full in the face, then his, as he came too, shooting his cum first in my wife, then, pulling out, all over my face.....

Afterward, she rolled off of me, panting, her legs open, her cunt wet and stretched, her pussy lips swollen and red. Steven stayed in position above me, his big cock, still hard, protruded from his body, strong and thick, waving in my face, his cum and my wifes, glistening on the shaft. I could hear Melissa, still moaning, probably still cumming, as I looked at his cock, and knew he had given her several orgasms, the last one being a big one.

He moved off of me, and moved up on the bed, beside Melissa, his hands cupping her breasts, as she rolled over on her back, smiling, kissing him, whispering something, and still moaning a little. She opened her legs, and I stared into her cunt, wet and fucked, dripping cum. I looked up at her, she nodded, "Go ahead, lick me up." It was almost a whisper, yet an order at the same time, and I knew she wanted me to do it, she wanted to show her bull that even though he controlled her, she controlled me. I moved between her legs and started licking....I was surprised when she moaned louder, and lifted her bum from the bed a little, just a little, just getting into position, something she did whenever my licking was turning her on. Now, as I licked her pussy, tasting creampie, she moaned and moved with my tongue, lifting from the bed, her hand on my head, holding me in position, until she grabbed my head with both hands, raised her legs, bending her knees and orgasmed, cumming with a scream, cumming from the feeling of my tongue on her clit, her pussy opened, and I tasted more wetness, more cum, as she released, squirting and cumming.

Later, after they had a cigarette and a drink, she made me get a facecloth and towel and clean the two of them up, before she sent me back downstairs while they said their goodbyes....

Introducing Female Domination

Although I don't think I realized it when we started, what was a lifestyle of us enjoying a relationship usually involving MFM threesomes, has become a version of a wife led marriage. Our recent talks about a cock cage for me, and seeing to her pleasure before mine, has become more and more predominant in our relationship and our playing with others. And...I am good with that, infact, it turns me on immensely, and I have to admit, I am more into it now than perhaps ever before.

It has been a funny journey, and one that is far from over, but it is happening, just not as I would have quite expected. However, I am not sure that she truly understands it yet herself, and in fact, she is either a natural, or she knows stuff I don't think she knows.

Anyway, the relationship that has taken me quite a long time to arrive at, is actually easier than you might imagine. There are ways to move your relationship in that direction. I found a very good blog post that will be helpful to you if you are trying to get your wife to go down this road. It's called Introducing Female Domination Check it out, you might find the tips very useful!

Listening To My Wife

Melissa is upstairs as I write this, I can hear her passion, it's happening in our bedroom, in our bed. She is getting fucked, and our bed is taking a pounding as well as her.

Earlier, when I got home from work, she just came out of the shower, and had me dry her off, put on her deodorant and brush her hair. Then, as she laid back on the bed, nude, I touched up her toenail polish....and rubbed her feet.

As I was rubbing her feet, she looked down at me, smiled and opened her legs, giving me a full view of her cunny, which was smoothly shaved, clear of any hair, thanks to yours truly.

"I think you should give my pussy a little licking." she said, smiling at me as I stood up, looking down at her outstretched legs, toes glistening with fresh red polish. "I want to be ready."

By 'ready' she meant, horny, for her new bull, who was on his way. She called him this morning, and suggested he come over this evening, which of course he agreed to. No wonder, she is fucking this guy like crazy. He's built, younger than us, and has a big thick cock swinging between his legs.

She started telling me about his big cock when I started licking her, my tongue sliding up and down her slit, probing inside tasting wetness, tasting her natural lubrication, which was not in short supply tonight. I was licking for dear life, my cock hard between my legs, when the doorbell sounded. She told me to answer it, but first, to take off my clothes. I stood up, looking at her spread on the bed, and did as she said, removing my clothes, my hard-on standing at attention.

"Good, now go let him in." she said, not moving.

I padded down the hall and opened the door, he was there, he looked at me, then down at my little cock and smiled as he entered. "Where's Mel?" he asked.

I pointed down the hall and he walked by me without, his stature much taller than my own, his body seeming big in the doorframe.

I started to follow but when I got to the bedroom Melissa was up, standing nude, kissing him on the lips. I stood in the doorway until they finished, then she turned to me and said, "That will be all, go downstairs until I call for you."

Her bull just grinned at her, not even looking my way again. I did see his hand reach out and grab my wife between the legs, she giggled and jumped, turning back towards him, saying, something, but I didn't make it out, as she closed the door on me....

So...here I am. Working on a blog about watching my wife....but I am not watching my wife...I am listening to her...and it sounds like she is about to cum....my cock is about to burst....

Male Chastity Device

Since I began Watching My Wife, Melissa and my relationship has gone through many twists and turns, all of them kinky and all of them fun! It started out as a release for my voyeuristic desires and has become a hotwife /cuckold relationship that I have to admit, has resulted in some fantastic sexual experiences.

I wrote a while ago about Melissa considering purchasing me The CURVE male chastity belt device
but that didn't happen, mostly because the price was a little steep, although there is no doubt it is probably the very best male chastity device on the market today. Although the idea intrigues me, I kind of breathed a sigh of relief when she didn't order it, not sure exactly what to expect from being 'locked down' so to speak. That would certainly inhibit my opportunities to join in on her sexual exploits. However....she has since discovered the Stallion Guard from Strict Leather.

This male chastity device is described as functional, inexpensive with the ability to adjust it for fit, and for under $30 it is considerably less expensive than The Curve that costs around $150 easy....

She ordered the Stallion Guard through Amazon so I'm sure I will be wearing it soon and no doubt you will see pictures....

"Oh Boy"

When I came home tonight Melissa took me by the hand and led me directly to our bedroom. I had just got home from and afternoon of golfing. When I opened the door and walked in, she was standing in the hallway, wearing nothing but a short night gown, that was almost sheer in the late afternoon sunlight coming in the living room window.

She said, "How did you get along?" but didn't wait for my answer. Instead she grabbed my hand and tugged me down the hall, me following dutifully, watching her bum through the wispy fabric of her gown. In the bedroom she let go of my hand, flopped down on the bed on her back and opened her legs, giving me a view of her pussy, which was wet by the look of it, wet and...I would say, fucked....

"Wow!" I exclaimed, "What have you been doing"?

"Why don't you stop talking and give me a licking, you will find out!" I pulled my golf shirt off over my head dropping it to the floor as I climbed onto the bed between her open legs. I could smell her sex as I approached her pussy, so wet and inviting looking, her lips all squirrely, the way they get after a long fuck.

My tongue touched her lips and she gasped, as did I, tasting the sex that was obviously there, a creampie, my wife, my slut, had spent the afternoon fucking, of that I was sure. She moaned as I licked her, completely immersed in the feeling of my tongue lapping at her juices, tasting her wetness, her body quivering as I bounced over her clit, probing between those 'fucked up lips' of her pussy.

"Ohhh....baby...yes...that's it...lick me...taste me...I was fucking Laurie this afternoon, in case you are wondering."

Laurie is our postman I think. She has been talking about him for about a week, ever since he dropped off a package from Frederick's of Hollywood that I had ordered for her. Apparently Laurie knew a hotwife when he saw one, and did a pretty good job getting her attention. Enough to find out that she was interested, and enough to get her phone number, or her his, I'm not sure. It really didn't matter. She had said she was expecting him to visit today while I was out, and I had debated whether or not to stay, or go, but she told me to go, saying she wanted to try him herself the first time.

As I licked, she told me about their afternoon. How she had brought him to our bed, and after some kissing and groping, she had opened her legs for him, giving him access to her private part, her vagina, wet and willing, reaching for his cock, to guide him to her entrance. She continued to tell me how he had fucked her hard, but hadn't lasted too long, not long enough apparently to satisfy my horny wife. She had played with him afterwards, hoping to bring his big cock back to life, but he didn't have it in him, and had eventually taken his leave, thanking her for a fun afternoon.

That left her horny and waiting for me, waiting for me to bring her the relief she craved, following an afternoon of erotic excitement with a new man. She told me how big he was compared to me, which of course was bigger, she always says that, knowing it gets me going...and how he had squeezed her tits, as he fucked her, and she liked it, actually squeezing them herself as I licked.

"Oh my god....oh jeezus....oh...fuck.....aaahh...." She came underneath my tongue, gasping and groaning, lifting her bum from the bed, pulling my head to her cunt, holding me there, breathing her wet scent, tasting their combined juices, tasting her cum.

Afterwards, when I started to take off my pants to fuck her, she said, "Im too tender." she said, "Maybe later, in the meantime...." she giggled, "Take off your pants, put on my panties, and go make me a cup of tea." She handed me a pair of panties that felt a little damp, I dropped my shorts on the floor and pulled on her panties. Tight, but they fit, my cock bulging, as I headed for the kitchen to get her tea.

"Make enough for two." she shouted as I headed down the hallway, "Darlene is coming over, I expect her any minute."

Ahh...the latest thing, dressing me in panties and inviting her girlfriend over....makes me soooo horny.....

Darlene arrived just as Melissa had said, she sent me to the door to let her in. The two of them sat out on our back deck enjoying the cool evening air, making me wait on them for more tea and cookies. They giggled everytime I poured the tea, or lit their cigarettes, and I could see Darlene kept looking at my dick pressing against ths thin fabric.

As the evening progressed they switched from tea to gin and tonics and it wasn't long before the inevitable happened, Melissa told me to take off the panties.....

"Why don't you take off my panties and show Darlene your little cock Darling. I know she is curious, and I have been telling her about it." They both giggled again.

"Right there, stand right there in front of us." she pointed to a spot in front of their chairs. "That's good, now...take them off."

I hooked my hands in the sides of the panties, my cock wasn't hard, in fact, it was shrivelled from the cold air...I pulled them down and stepped out of them and stood facing the women....Darlene stared....mouth open....Melissa just giggled...."Give us a show, jerk off for us"

Oh boy...the things a cuck does for his hotwife....I took my limp dick in my hand, and started stroking. It wasn't too bad though, towards the end, Darlene opened her blouse and let me shoot cum all over her breasts....she has nice breasts...then they spanked me for being bad....