Thoughts About The Cuckold Hotwife Lifestyle

This whole cuckold hotwife lifestyle is interesting to say the least. It takes a certain disposition to accept that your wife has needs and wants that other men can provide, and you cannot. It also takes a certain special relationship to allow that to happen, without ruining the relationship. Let's face it, when you are watching your wife have multiple orgasms while riding another man, making sounds like you never seem to be able get from her, it has an unnerving affect. Or it can. It's something you need to be prepared for, when you make that first time happen.

But...it can also be the most erotic, sexiest, most exciting moment of your sex life. It can give you a hard-on that will feel like a tree between your legs and it can make you horny for her for weeks afterwards. And...surprisingly enough, it can make her horny for you too, even if you think he has satisfied all her needs.

It's important to make sure you separate, and keep separated the emotional needs from the sexual needs of both you and your wife, while you are in a hotwife-bull-cuckold situation. Yes, she has sexual needs, and yes, he is going to satisfy those, but she also has emotional needs, that's where you come in. You both need to remember, it is sex, not love, it is his cock, and his tongue that is making her cum and cum...not his love for her, or her for him.

I suppose it is possible for a hotwife to fall for a lover, and I'm sure it happens on occasion. But it shouldn't. Not if you are in it for the right reasons. Make sure you are comfortable with each other, and secure with your feelings for each other before you ever start. Melissa and I have. We both love each other immeasurably, and have been together for years, and I have no doubt that will continue. If she was going to leave me for one of her bulls, that would have likely happened long before now.

But she is not looking for love, or my replacement. We do the hotwife cuckold stuff because it is a huge turn-on for both of us. Maybe even more for me than it is for her, but that might just be me thinking that. Whatever, it is our fantasy made real, and we both enjoy it, without spending too much time disecting it, or questioning it. I love to watch her with another man, and she loves to put on a show for me, while experiencing the excitement and sexual fun that comes from a new, strange sex partner. We dabble in a little humilation, a little cuckolding, and a little swinging, where it is MFM, although we have played with women and with other couples. In the end, we have found, that what we like best, is the MFM variety, with me often the cuck. A single guy is a lot less complicated than a couple, probably because it comes without the added wants and needs of the fourth person. Plus, I am always distracted by what Melissa is doing, which often leaves the other woman a little short changed from me. For me, the experiences always leave me loving Melissa even more than I thought possible. For her, the experiences, beyond the orgasms and sexual satisfaction, always leave her feeling happy she made me happy, and typically mean she gets treated like a princess for weeks following....why wouldn't she like that? LOL

I know that many of you think the same way, and many of you had enjoyed similar experiences to ours. I'm happy for you, because, if it turns you on, you are having experiences that many never know exist. If it is at this point only a fantasy, I suggest you think it through, talk it over with your significant other, and see where it leads. These days, the internet is a veritable smorgasbord of places to meet like minded people, and there are many publications and websites that can help you enjoy and endulge in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle. In fact, several of them are in my sidebars, like Adult Friendfinder, and the many e-books listed in the helpful links section. But you don't have to use them, you can just play it by ear, and see what happens. You might know a guy who would be suitable, although, I don't recommend you ask your friends to fuck your wife, that can be OK, but it can also be awkward. Better to keep those friends separate from you fuck-buddy friends....

Everyone has their own particular fantasies and fetishes. Some folks are really into bondage, some into BDSM, some into swinging with groups, orgies and similar activities, some like to watch there wives with other women, and some men like to have other women that their wives don't know about. Whatever it is, whatever your fantasy, it is up to you to decide if it is going to be a fantasy or a reality. Just make sure you think it through completely, the ramifications can be rewarding and fun, or they can become a problem. Don't let it become a problem.

So what about you? Have you tried any of this stuff yet, or is it still a fantasy? Does your wife share your fantasy? Does your husband?

A New Guy

Melissa moaned and lifted her legs in the air, wrapping them around his back....she moved her body underneath him, responding to his thrusts, to his cock, buried deep inside of her, as she adjusted to his size, and to the long, deep, powerful thrusts he was taking, sliding in and out, pressing his cock against the outside of her vagina, spreading her lips slowly, before thrusting again.

I sat on a chair watching, staying where he had told me to stay, after she had said, "My husband watches, but he won't participate unless we decide we want him, and by the look of your cock compared to his little dick, I won't."

My little dick stirred when she said that, when she put on the airs of a hotwife, a woman in charge of her man. I sat in the chair, watching as she and her newest bull took their pleasure on our bed, my side in fact. He was really enjoying my wife. He had started by laying her on her back on the bed, and then straddling her, getting her to suck his cock, which she did, willingly, obviously enjoying it. He had looked over his shoulder at me and told me to feel her cunt and see if she was getting wet. I did, pressing two fingers between her legs and over her smooth vagina. She was wet, very wet....my fingers were almost dripping.

"That's enough." he said, "I'll look after her." With that, he pulled back and moved down on the bed, sliding in between her thighs, pushing her legs open, his head going down between my wife's thighs, his mouth, his tongue on my wife's private part, tasting her wetness, probing between her soft wet lips. She moaned and arched her back, lifting off the bed as his tongue found her clit, teasing it, before probing her vagina, opening her up. He took both hands and pulled her lips open, and lightly flicked his tongue over her slit, bouncing it over her clitty, sliding it the length of her slit, until she was moaning louder and louder, preparing to cum.

When she did, he held her thighs down with his upper arms, and continued working her cunt with his mouth, taking her up to an orgasm, letting her come down a sec before taking her up to another one. I counted 5 in all, that were hard orgasms, she was panting and gasping by then, as he stopped to give her a moment's rest.

But it was only a moment. He moved up on the bed again, until his cock was in line with her wet pussy, which opened as he pressed against it. From my vantage point on the chair behind the bed, I could see her open, and even see the wetness glistening inside as he shoved inside of my wife with his hard cock, spreading her open wide.

She needed him. It has been a few weeks since she has had a good big cock, and I knew she was getting horny for another one. Not one of her regular fuck buddies, she likes to experiment with new guys from time to time, enjoying the excitement of getting nude in front of a stranger, of letting a stranger slide between her legs.

I had come home from work last week and found her chatting on Adult FriendFinder which is a pretty good indication that she was getting the idea that it was time for a new boytoy. I felt bad for some of the other ones who she was fucking, knowing that a new guy was going to take their place, at least for a little while.

Sure enough, she told me a guy named Thomas was coming to our place for supper Saturday night, and he did....

The two of them fucked for a couple of hours, until I knew that she was going to be too sore for me, but later, after he left, she took my hand, and kissed me, leading me back to the bedroom. She pulled me down on our bed, our bed that was wet with their sex, with his and her cum and sweat, with the smell of the sex that had just happen, his afterhave lingered on the bedsheets and on her cunny....the cunny that I was allowed to lick.....she came once more with me licking her wet, freshly fucked, freshly stretched cunny....then she told me to go to sleep...I did, with my little cock in my hand....

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