Melissa Writes

Hi Guys...this is Melissa. I know, I usually don't write here, but today, after reading my husbands previous post I thought I would put in my two cents worth. After all, the idea of him wearing a chastity cage is my idea, so I told him I was going to write about it on his blog. It's part of my new femdom persona I guess.

I've been reading about the 'femdom' movement for a little while, and to some degree, before I even knew what it was, my husband and I have been practicing it. I think it comes very close to the cuckold lifestyle, only taken a little further, and even speaks to the idea of 'orgasm denial' which is something I have just started with my husband. He likes to watch me...so that is all he gets to do unless I say different. Having him in one of those cock cages, well that would just add to the sexiness of it. He couldn't even jerk himself off!

But...I am not sure if this is the way to go or not, so I am putting the idea out to you guys. Anyone have one of the cages, or male chastity belts? Does your wife enjoy it? Do you?

Male Chastity

Melissa is still talking about getting me some kind of male chastity device like The CURVE male chastity belt She says it will be fun! Uh-huh...for her...I dunno maybe for me too. It is something different that is for sure. I just don't know about being controlled quite that much. It's one thing to enjoy watching her, and sometimes participating, but now...well this is different. I've noticed her leaning more in that direction of late, treating me a little differently, living up to the cuckoldress name a little bit more all the time. Now, with this idea, we are getting into more of a 'femdom' relationship, and I am just not quite sure how I feel about it.

In truth, I probably feel turned on by the idea. In some of our experiences, she has turned on the woman in charge attitude and ordered me around, making me feel quite submissive. At the time, it turned me on, so I suppose it would be the same now. In fact, as I sit here writing this, the idea is gaining ground. The idea of the chastity device is kind of intriquing actually, depending on when and where she intends for me to wear it.

On the other hand, the idea of her teasing me all the while my penis is locked in a cage, unable to react, well, that has some merit. It might be fun to try it anyway.I am not going to say I won't do it, but I am going to need to think about it a little more. Imagine wearing that 'cage' when she is getting banged by some other guy, being forced to watch, maybe rub her feet or worse, his, or something like that. I'm not too keen on that idea....