How To Be A Cuckold

It occurred to me this morning that I write quite often about cuckold related things, like how to convince your wife to become a hotwife and even how to become the alpha male in a cuckold/hotwife/bull relationship, even promoting two excellent resources on the topics, Convince Your Wife To Be A Hotwife and my friend John Alexander's helpful e-book Learn how to become the Alpha Male!

However, I really haven't talked about how to become a cuckold. Perhaps I was going at it in reverse, make your wife a hotwife and then teach other men how to become a bull for my hotwife. But I think there is more to it than that.

Being a cuckold is a couple of things. First, it is not for everyone, second, it is something you have to live if you want to experience it to the fullest extent. It involves encouraging your wife to have sex with others, and encouraging her to do the things you want or need to get your own pleasure from those experiences. You need to become somewhat subservient to her wishes, doing what you are told, not necessarily what you want, and be prepared to be a little jealous at times and feel inadequate. If that turns you on, you are on your way to becoming a cuckold.

The first thing is to decide what you want. Do you want to watch, do you want her to comment on her bull's big cock, comparing it to your smaller appendage? Do you want to participate in the sex? Stay home alone while she goes on 'dates?' Listen to her stories about it when she comes home?

The other thing to remember is that not all women are willing to do this, in fact, some won't like it at all, so be careful. You know your woman better than anyone at this point, so you need to think about her reaction before you bring it up. Stronger willed women, who are naturally bossy, make the best hotwives typically. It comes more natural to them. Think about your wife, is she subservient to you or more the boss in the relationship? Be honest.....

I am starting to ramble so I am going to try and focus this into a short list. Here is what I think you need to do to become a cuckold.

1) Admit your own short comings to your wife. Tell her you know your cock is not enough for her. Make her agree with you, even if it is border line role playing. Ask her to tell you she occasionally needs a bigger cock than yours.

2) Wait on her hand and foot. Do things that are not as masculine as you might do normally, such as paint her toenails, shave her pussy, help dress her, prepare her when she is going out, even if it is just with you.
3) Encourage her to talk to other men, and make sure she knows how much it turns you on. It is amazing how wives will do things to please their man, especially older women. Tell her how much it turns you on to see her flirting with other men. Encourage it.

4) Be prepared to be a little weak willed. Give in to her desires, wants, needs, even if that is doing the dishes, as long as she understands that it is because of your cuckolding desires that you are doing it. It is amazing how women will reward you for things like housework if you play your cards right. Again, encourage her to tease you about your cock and so on, and encourage her to tell you when she sees a man she might fuck, even if it is only fantasy.

5) Make sure she knows you are OK with her with other guys, but set the ground rules, you want to be there, or not, he must be single or not, etc.

6) During sex with others, have her show your cock to her bull and laugh at it, explaining why she needs satisfaction from him. This will turn you on....

7)This one isn't for everyone, but some women will get a kick out of making you wear a pair of her panties instead of your own underwear. Remember, for cuckold / hotwife purposes, she has to be the one in control of you.

8)Reassure her that your desire to be cuck'd has nothing to do with your love for her, it's just about sex and sexual satisfaction. Yours and hers. You need to see her with others, it turns you on because you love being married to a hotwife!

9) Help the bull get into her pants, encourage it, even go so far as to guide his cock inside of her if he is OK with that, wives often love that.

10) Ask her to think about what turns her on by the idea of her cuckolding you. Be careful here, she might not like to admit it, or she truly might not even like the idea, in which case, maybe it won't work for you. Let it go, wait for awhile and bring it up again, a little at a time.

There are a few things to think about. This is a big topic, so we'll discuss it further in an upcoming post. In the meantime, think about the above things, and let me know if you think of any other ideas.